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I am Lola Riley, and this is my husband,
Devon Riley.

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Before we met, I did a lot of
experimenting, actually, with men and

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And we kind of got into the lifestyle
together as a couple. The more I got to

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understanding and loving her is when it
became more about her being pleased and

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having pleasure and being happy.

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And as long as she's having fun and she
likes it, I love it.

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You are watching YC .com.

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How are

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you feeling?

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I didn't make it really perfect.

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I'm going to go home and move my wife
because she's pretty.

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what's good it's hollywood cast i'm back
on set today i like the studio today we

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got lola and devon hope y 'all ready for
that they come

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beautiful

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How are you?

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How are you?

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Better now.

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I'm going to take it easy.

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Take care of yourself. All right. Are
you ready for that? I am.

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Are you ready? I'm confident.

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You have no idea.

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I'm ready.

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Here we go.

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A little token of our appreciation.

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Aww.

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To be part of the Whitefish family.
Right? Yay.

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All right. You ready to do this?

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Fuck yeah. Let's go.

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I'm from Louisville, Kentucky, and he's
from Frankfort. I'm sorry. No, you're

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fine.

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Sorry, I'm originally from Frankfort,
Kentucky, so right down the street from

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where she's from. So our first date
would have been I invited her, some

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friends of mine, down to Gatlinburg,
Tennessee for a weekend, just kind of

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getaway.

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At the time, I was actually separating
from my marriage and happened to meet

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this little fairy here who was just... I
invited her to come down and hang out

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with... Me and my friends. But it was
honestly just a platonic kind of hangout

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down in Gatlinburg, Tennessee. It's
always a fun time.

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The problem was all my friends backed
out.

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The only person who did not back out was
this one. So we wound up having like a

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two -room, very large resort all weekend
by ourselves.

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Two completely separate. Yeah, two
separate rooms connected.

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But it was just ours for the whole
weekend. And we haven't been apart

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And we actually stayed in the pull -out
couch while.

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They all stayed in the big bed.

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I think the moment that I knew that this
one was for me was that first weekend

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we hung out together because if it
wasn't, I don't think we would have

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every weekend after that together.

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So much so that we drove down separate
but wound up riding back together, if

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that makes sense. We put her car on a
tow dolly and drug it with us back to

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Kentucky. Towed it back.

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I didn't want her to go yet. We did not
want to leave.

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Before we met, I did a lot of
experimenting, actually, with men and

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couples.

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And I know you have as well. What?

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No, me?

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You? Crazy.

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No, as far as, like, experimenting
before we were together, I think I had

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experience and see a lot of few
different kind of lifestyle -type

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been to a couple parties.

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You know, been into, like, I got invited
to a gangbang once that was...

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That was fun. It was in college. I wound
up being one of my professor's wives on

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accident. So at the time, I think
Craigslist was the way people

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with each other.

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And I think I responded to like a
gangbang ad. And I realized it was like

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down the street from where I was staying
in college.

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I show up to this nice house. This guy
opens the door, and he legit has a

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handheld camera in his hand.

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And then he has a charcuterie board in
the other hand. It was like, hey, you

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want a snack? Everybody else is in the
back. And I was like, okay, this is

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happening. Got back.

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Everybody kind of did a little
introduction and whatnot.

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And the husband starts telling, you
know, like who they are and whatnot.

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Next thing out of his mouth was, yeah,
I'm a professor right down the street.

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And he was like this at a third. And my
eyes got big. He was like, why?

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I was like, I go there. He was like.

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I said, trust me, if I'm here, I'm not
telling on you. So that was that

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experience. And luckily, I never had to
have that professor again.

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We discovered a lifestyle together in a
new way. So I had, like I said, I had

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been seeing a party or two, but didn't
really enjoy what I had, I guess, come

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across. So when I met my lovely wife
here, I think I asked her.

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I asked her what she was interested in,
what she had done before.

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I tried to ease it in to if you ever had
a threesome, been with a girl. I didn't

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want to come out and be like, you trying
to do a gangbang?

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Or you want to do an orgy?

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12 men and you, what are you trying to
do? So I broke it in easy and once I saw

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how she responded to that simple
question, I let her take it from there

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explain what she was into. So from that,
I just kind of worked on what she

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wanted or wanted to try.

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It was the easiest way instead of me
trying to say, I want this.

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Nah, I let her do it. And five years
later, you're still in it? I've cracked

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code, fellas. It's never up to you.

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It's what they say is gold.

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The things that he brought up to me to
basically get us

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into the, or start us in the lifestyle
was, of course, he started with the girl

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on girl.

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Have you ever done that? Yes.

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Have you ever been with multiple guys?

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Yes. Have you ever been with a couple? I
have.

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So I was lifestyle before I was
lifestyle.

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She didn't know it.

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But after we had met and talked about
those things, I wanted to try

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more. I did want to try gangbangs.

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I wasn't ready for that. I honestly did
not know that that was coming.

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But once I got, you know, used to it
versus being in relationships that

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have this level of honesty, it was
automatically like feelings. I was like

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jealous. I was like, no, no, what? No.

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The more I got to understanding and
loving her is when it became more about

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being pleased and having pleasure and
being happy. And as long as she's having

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fun, if she likes it, I love it.

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After getting together, our lifestyle
group we came up with is called

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Again,

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after getting together, we went to a
party, our first party together.

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And we kind of got into the lifestyle
together as a couple out the gate. So

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seeing a lot of the lifestyle, different
events, different parties, different

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functions, different gatherings.

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We kind of took what we felt like was
the best of all worlds and brought it

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to where we're from and to start growing
and hosting our own events.

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Our plan was to grow a community of like
-minded people who had the same kind of

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outlook and, you know, kind of just
passion for life as we did.

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So when you have that many people around
you who feel and think like you do,

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nothing feels weird, nothing feels out
of place, nothing feels lost.

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So it's easy for someone who may have
been hidden before or didn't really...

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I guess never felt like who they were
was good enough or be able to come out

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a shell.

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We built that shell around them people
and told them it's okay to be you.

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And just watching people over a year or
a couple months' time of visiting an

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event is insane. How much they grow and
learn different things in life. It's

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freaking awesome.

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How do you feel about that? Like when
you first started seeing all of our

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friends together, like different, not to
mention everybody's different

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background, play styles and whatnot.

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So it's...

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as you are come as you who you are
because a lot of different groups and

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doesn't have doesn't allow male male
play or different kind of you know

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homosexual type play but whereas we were
like it doesn't matter if it's not

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something that we like or she liked you
know you can do it over there it's not

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going to bother us but there's never a
place where we feel like we have an

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opinion about what you do what you like
is that it should be looked down upon so

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we just move past it like he says you
like it i love it

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And not to mention, there's also the
same with different races, different

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play, racial play.

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Race comes into a large effect of
different groups, believe it or not. So

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even just so much as playing, you know,
with black and white or whatever it is.

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It may necessarily be this group just
collectively doesn't necessarily cross

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over to different races. And that can
feel kind of stingy sometimes, but at

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same time, I was like, I don't ever want
no one to feel like that when they're

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with us. Being an interracial couple,

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Not just in the regular life and regular
world, but then crossing over and going

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to a world that feels a lot of hush
-hush and a lot of different kind of,

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you know, rules that they play with.

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I think I've come to the point where
I've learned to really just ignore if

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not for me, and if it is, then play into
it. But I know she gets bothered

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sometimes when, like, we see people
talking, their first thing out of their

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mouth is, well, we don't play with BBC.

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Or I want to try it. That's not
something you try.

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No. As a person.

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I do get a little bothered by that
sometimes, but we

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don't do any of that in

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our group.

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So our first official hot wife
experience, we had

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found something on 3Fun.

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It was one of the dating apps. Yeah, one
of the dating apps.

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And had him come over where we were at
the time.

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I thought we were house -sitting.

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Yes, we were house -sitting. And we had
him come over.

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I did not know what to expect or what to
do, honestly, with two at first.

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But kind of start with him and then go
see the other guy together.

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And it was great because I think that
was the first time that I got DVP'd.

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Yeah. Yeah.

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So that was fun. Two poles, one hole.
Love that.

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And to be fair, I think probably like
the first experience like that,

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together as a new couple, it's kind of
awkward, kind of weird. It's like you

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don't know how much fun you're allowed
to like really have and how much you're

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actually allowed to enjoy with your
partner watching.

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Thinking that he actually liked it. Are
they upset?

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Are they not happy that you're having a
lot of fun or what?

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We've seen that too where couples were
doing that and the husband or wife got

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mad because they had too much fun
while...

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playing with someone else and being a
couple you should together want you know

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both of you all to be happy and both of
you all to be satisfied and and we try

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to stay away from the well you had fun
so it's my turn now that was never that

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was never one of our things that you
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or what we played but mine more so was
did you have fun yet did you come here

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like i love freaking listen she makes a
noise when she comes That, I'm sorry, I

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know this is wild, but listen, she makes
a noise when she comes in. Everybody

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knows. Like, it doesn't matter what room
she's in, the moment she comes, it is,

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whoop, logo's coming.

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It's automatic. So I know she's always
having a good time with that.

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Okay, cheeks.

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Why are you not in uniform?

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When jealousy comes up, I tend to think
of it in the very back of my head.

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Sometimes there's a little bit of
jealousy there, but then I think, why?

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Why am I jealous? I have somebody who is
with me, who lets me be me.

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I let him be him. We're just better
together.

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And the jealousy just kind of goes away.
The love that I have for him, it

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shows that there's no reason to be
jealous. The way we've been for the past

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years,

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I don't see that, again, I don't need to
be jealous.

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I'm not doing it again.

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This is it. This is my death buddy.
Like, this is over.

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But I think in terms of, like, for me,
if jealousy or kind of, like, things

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that were to come up, it's more so of is
it me that I'm projecting some kind of,

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like, energy out on what's happening or,
you know, just trying to assume the

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worst or don't want the worst to happen.

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It just comes from reassurance.

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Before, after, during, let your partner
know, I'm here because I love you. I

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love you. I'm not worried about this or
that or the third. Are you having fun?

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Are you enjoying it?

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That's what I cared about. Now, anytime
the feelings did come up, it was a

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conversation afterwards that we had
between ourselves.

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And we knew no matter how this
conversation goes, we still love each

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the end of it, no matter what. So we
chose to do this action. Now, I can't be

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upset that the action happened and want
to make us think about it.

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It was supposed to be okay.

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So anytime there was something that may
have happened during the situation, hey,

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babe, I didn't like that too much, or I
don't know if I like that, you know, or

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however it comes out.

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We talk matter -of -fact, blunt, and
just straight to the point. Like, no,

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not going outside. Leave me alone.

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I love you. I don't know.

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That kind of thing. So it's not
necessarily ever, like, really angry. I

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think there's anybody in our household
that could be upset longer than 15

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seconds. It's not possible.

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So a lot of talking, a lot of...

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Like, reassuring, a lot of, you know,
just confirmation of you're my person.

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That's all that matters.

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So one thing I love about him is he is
very open -hearted and kind and caring.

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He will help anyone off the street. He
will help when disasters happen,

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like the flood that we had in Frankfort,
Kentucky.

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It was really bad, and he...

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Took his time to go down there, drive
back and forth from where we live to

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Frankfurt multiple times and help bring
clothes, bring food, whatever the case

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was. He always is trying to help other
people and better other people.

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What I love most about Lola is the fact
that she discovers herself every day.

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She wakes up and there's a new version
of herself that she may have not known

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yet. But I can see it because I get to
watch her change every day. From the

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moment I met her until now, this is not
the same person that I met when we met

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on Tinder.

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It was a whole different atmosphere, a
whole different personality attitude.

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The way she carried herself, the way she
walked, talked, and the way she cared

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about others has completely changed
because someone told her it was okay to

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herself first.

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So the moment she loved herself, you
knew you could see it on her physically.

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It's just that.

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It's a lot to be able to find somebody
that every day can be easy, and it

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doesn't ever feel like work, even though
no matter how many times in our lives

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we've been told, it's a lot of work,
it's hard work, it's this, and I'm like,

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I'm waiting for the honeymoon phase to
end. It has not, and it's been five

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years, and I don't think that'll ever go
away.

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I'd probably say high -wifing has helped
our relationship in terms of

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communication because it takes so much
communication and trust, especially with

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us at the beginning. We started out
doing it separately.

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You know, where she would go off and
play and then come back and get to tell

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about it. But that part of the time is
when communication wasn't super great.

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it was coming home, how was it? Fine.

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It was good.

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All right, yeah, that's not a lot for me
to go off of here, ma 'am. Okay, I'm

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trying to, you know, rub one out here.
That's not any good fodder. I mean, you

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know, what happened? Did he lick your
toe? Did he twist you over?

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What did he say? You know, those kind of
things. It got better.

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Yeah. But it's about being together.

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It's about us.

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Doing the experience together.

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So hot wifing.

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Has made our relationship stronger.
Because of that.

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I was not a people person.

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Until I got in the lifestyle.

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And I.

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I am who I am now.

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Because of him.

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No because of you.

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You decided to change.

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I just told you it was okay.

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You said it was okay for me to be me.

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The lifestyle.

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brings out personal traits of you that
you didn't know you had.

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Hopefully. Some people can.

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People reading.

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Understanding people's body language,
things that they don't say, is probably

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the most important part, I believe, in a
lifestyle. Because you can tell me what

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you want to say, but that doesn't mean
that you're believing it or doing it.

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Now, if you're saying, yes, I would love
to come in here with you, but your feet

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are trying to move this way while your
body's going forward, there's just, you

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know, small things like that. It matters
a lot.

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And being able to read body language
is...

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also helped our relationship a lot too
because i could tell when she's pissed

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mad happy glad i don't know i just i
kind of like throw a pebble in the room

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test the waters first see how far it
ripples out throw me a cookie there is

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there are a lot of different like you
know cookie cutter are y 'all swingers

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they are kinksters they are you know uh
poly polyamory poly love i was like oh

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okay there's a lot of a lot of terms
let's call it lifestyle

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And the lifestyle gives it that umbrella
term. If I had to describe it to

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somebody so they could understand if
they didn't know us at all, I would say

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we're swingers that are just swingers.

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We don't poke everything that walks by
us. That's what a lot of people's

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misconception is. Like, oh, you're
swingers. I don't want to have sex with

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I'm like, first off, fam, I promise. We
didn't want to play with you.

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And then it's for us to play more into.

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the personalities, attitudes, everything
else. So it's not just first meet and

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greet and dump and pump.

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It's get to know people sometimes and
then kind of go from there. The best pot

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-waving experience I had was the
pregnancy gangbang.

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So again, the pregnancy gangbang was
four guys, myself, my pregnant self.

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Was that your... We're going to have to
because...

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First of all, I would say that we're
more so like fag and vixen for the most

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part, unless she wants me to join in
every whatever.

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Towards the beginning, when we're still
learning ourselves and how everything

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works, I had to quickly realize that I
did have to step further back from the

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hot wife situation just because the
other men would have problems performing

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once I was involved.

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Then I started thinking it was something
about me, and then I realized what was

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actually happening. So I actually, I'll
leave the room, and I'll let whoever the

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other person is get, I guess, warmed up
and acclimated before I kind of creep in

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and, you know, sit in the corner like,
yeah, you cool, babe. I like that.

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Yeah. You know, that kind of thing. But
probably the best one that happened was

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the one she was talking about because we
all were involved. It was hot, heavy,

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and for the most part, I got to sit
there and watch that too.

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Before we got together, I was previously
married. I started a Pornhub page with

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my ex -wife. Yeah.

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Shocking enough that she was even okay
that that allowed that to happen because

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you got to have, you know, signatures
and consent forms and all that stuff. So

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she signed all that just to not be okay
with it.

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But, like, still, like, allowed me to do
it and post it, but she was like, it

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can only be this, that, or the third.

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However, it's ours now, and we have over
five -something million. Oh, no,

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there's, well, yeah, there's five
million views on there now, but.

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we go to glory holes so we do a lot of
content there so even before the hot

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experience which was in the very
beginning of our relationship we went he

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me to an adult theater an adult
bookstore where they have toys and they

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books videos don't make it sound like a
library but secret a secret

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door there's a couple secret doors you
go behind those doors and there are

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There are rooms where the booths set up
to where there's a chair in there,

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there's something you can watch, well,
different porns you can watch, and

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there's a hole in the wall.

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See a dick?

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You suck it.

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I loved going to the glory hole.

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We used to have people meet us there so
I could have somebody on, you know, the

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other side, and that's fun.

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It's really fun for me. And him. It's my
favorite. Again, I get to sit in the

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back of the corner where it's already
dark.

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I'm good.

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It's kind of an open play with the whole
being on the wall, but then it's still

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privacy because we're in a small booth
that locks.

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So I can, she can stop if she's too hot
and wants to display with me. We can

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just do that at the same time.

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So it kind of like adds a couple of
different variables for our dynamics of

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whatever we choose to do while in that
room with our own privacy.

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And then not to mention there's porn
playing on the TV too.

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Oh, fuck.

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I think it's really important to see
real couples like us to see what the

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lifestyle can offer you. I'm not going
to say that's what the lifestyle is, but

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it can definitely offer you that in your
relationship if you take the time to

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communicate and just be okay with each
other, whatever that case is,

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boundaries, things like that.

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We feel like it's important for people
to see couples like us in this

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Just to give a variety.

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Not so much as in a racial couple, but a
couple who's actually happy.

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A couple who is not constantly fighting.
A couple who, it's more than just

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whatever it is that y 'all are there
for.

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It just has to mean more.

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And I feel like it does when people get
to see us.

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Along with us meeting, us meeting our
friends, us meeting other people who are

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around the lifestyle and who's got 10,
20 years in it, the only thing that we

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asked was, like, what makes it work?
Like, you know, you said 20 years,

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What did it?

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No one really ever gave us real answers
aside from, you know, it's a lot of hard

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work. You just got to stick it out. I'm
not sticking shit out if I'm not happy.

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That's dumb.

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But that was never a thing with meeting
Lola. It was we met and instantly.

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We just never separated. I mean, not a
joke. We literally have been together.

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It's been ever since then.

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Nonstop. Of course, there's a couple
days here and there, but we have nonstop

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been together.

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But just to be able to see somebody you
love every day.

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And like I said, we were asking our
other friends we met what they felt like

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most important to them, and they all
used the love.

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They all said love.

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We love love.

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And I was like, I've never heard anybody
explain it like that or say it, but I

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was like, that's exactly what we feel
and how we feel. So making our group and

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anybody that we had around us, if your
relationship wasn't the same, I mean,

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saying the same as ours, but you all
have to love each other for us to feel

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comfortable around you and want to be
around you. And when we get to see our

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friends who are happy, when we see our
friends who pop back up and they're

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oh my God, we tried this for the first
time because you all were this at a

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third. And we was like.

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Love it. Great.

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We love it.

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We've seen more couples stay together or
get together and go further in their

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relationship since we've been together
than we've seen split up.

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And I say that like that because outside
the lifestyle, a lot of couples get

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together and break up instantly over
whatever is crazy.

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A little jealousy thing.

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Planning on getting into hot wiping or
anything of the sort.

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Talk. Communication. The only.

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thing i will even offer anybody is if i
make sure you have boundaries and rules

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and things set up because you go and you
go into it some people are like oh we

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don't have any rules at all we don't
have any boundaries we walk away from

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idea we run yeah we're we're okay what i
hope to get out of this experience

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today um for one is honestly to be able
to know how to do different poses

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different um positions on camera the
actual Angles of the camera or where

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are. I wanted to feel like, honestly,
get, get all done up and

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just feel really good and really self
confident about myself. And it

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really has helped me.

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And I feel like I, I just look like a
million bucks right now.

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She did.

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I don't say that often.

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Ever. Actually, she's never said it
ever.

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Let's be honest.

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And you look fucking gorgeous. And not
to mention, typically she's not in

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colorful items. So it's awesome to get
to see her seeing herself as we all

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else see her.

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You look so hot.

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Thank you.

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You look sexy on the couch.

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You look sexy anywhere you go, girl.
Shit.

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Well, we have Hollywood Cash.

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Excited to meet you. Are you ready to
share your wifey experience with the

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world? I absolutely am.

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Let's get started.

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Be

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nice

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to her, okay? She fights back.

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I like that.

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Why don't I get you out of this chair?

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I'm going to spit out the back end, too.

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Ugh.

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Let's hear the joy going.

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Mmm.

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Mm -hmm.

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We'll do a tour around.

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Come join her.

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Hmm.

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I think my most favorite part, besides
the sex, was

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how everybody has been so nice.

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And they have done so much for me.

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01:00:01,200 --> 01:00:03,020
Hair done, makeup done.

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01:00:03,340 --> 01:00:05,240
I got all dolled up and dressed.

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01:00:06,180 --> 01:00:11,860
And it made me feel so great about
myself. And I loved every minute of

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here. And I would love to be back.

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01:00:14,160 --> 01:00:15,300
Guys, that was so hot.

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01:00:15,840 --> 01:00:16,840
How's everyone feeling?

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01:00:17,320 --> 01:00:18,218
I feel great.

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01:00:18,220 --> 01:00:19,220
Amazing.

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01:00:19,560 --> 01:00:20,660
That was fun. I'm happy.

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01:00:20,860 --> 01:00:22,220
I wouldn't even hit it, but I'm happy.

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I'm good.

450
01:00:23,720 --> 01:00:25,120
It was better than I expected.

451
01:00:26,240 --> 01:00:29,700
Amazing. I don't know what to expect,
but I'm happy with what I got, for sure.

452
01:00:29,920 --> 01:00:33,820
I actually really did like that
Hollywood walk -a -face.

453
01:00:34,260 --> 01:00:35,920
Yeah, that was fun.

454
01:00:36,320 --> 01:00:39,340
My favorite part was probably I love it.
And the fact that, you know, like you

455
01:00:39,340 --> 01:00:43,400
was able to relax after a minute and you
really got comfortable. You can kind of

456
01:00:43,400 --> 01:00:44,400
see when you got.

457
01:00:44,729 --> 01:00:46,710
More relaxed. It was like, okay, nobody
here is going to bite me.

458
01:00:47,270 --> 01:00:50,990
Yeah, that was definitely my favorite
part. The moment when you completely let

459
01:00:50,990 --> 01:00:52,730
me in, I'm like, oh, yeah.

460
01:00:53,310 --> 01:00:54,870
Are you off to the races now? Yeah.

461
01:00:56,910 --> 01:01:01,390
If you want a wifey experience of your
own, visit wifey .com forward slash

462
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casting.